Statement of Intention:
you share that list with me now please?”
read to him the following statement of
My intention is to create and
maintain relationships which optimize my
joy, my individual freedom and my personal
I am a master of the principles, the
techniques, and the states of being required
for me in order to easily and freely flow
with the energies of joyous relationships
which optimize my freedom and my personal
My intention is to have and
experience a warm, loving, harmonious,
joyous, long-lasting, intimate
My intention is to have and
experience relationships that have as many
of the following attributes as possible:
Free, and Loving,
and Divinely Blessed,
Friendly, and Nurturing,
and Emotionally Healthy,
Balanced, and Wholesome,
Supportive, Nurturing, and Win/Win,
Creative, Inspiring, and Uplifting,
Tranquil, Smooth, and Peaceful,
and Filled with Beauty,
Friendly, and Joyous,
Sharing, Thoughtful, and Nurturing,
Tender, Affectionate, and Intimate,
Passionate, and Sensitive,
Sexual, and Luxurious,
Energetic, and Stimulating,
Ecstatic, Awesome, and Incredibly Delightful,
Fulfilling, Satisfying, and Gratifying,
Honest, and Discreet,
Intriguing, and Mysterious,
Open, Flexible, and Freeing,
Unique, and Unusual,
of Joyous Surprises,
Growing, and Productive,
Abundant, and Rich,
and Financially Lucrative.
order to have and experience these
attributes of relationships, I am, to the
best of my ability, willing to and intending
to live my life expressing and being:
Understanding, and Forgiving,
(One who accepts others as they are)
(One who allows others to be, do,
have, and express
whatever they choose)
(At times, being left alone and able to
leave others alone)
Honest, and Trustworthy,
(Able to trust others)
( a good listener)
who completes things,
who practices clear and open communication,
who lives in the space of new possibilities.
I’m sure you’re aware that your stated
intentions are extremely idealistic. Don’t expect yourself to be able to manifest this
ideal, and above all, don’t expect Stoney to
do so either.”
I know. I hold this as a list of possibilities.
My intention was to create a list of
everything joyous that I could think of and then
use that list as my vision of possibilities.”
pleased to hear Intendr, acknowledge my effort.
He says, “I see that as a healthy and
wise perspective, because if you don’t at
least set them up as possibilities, you’ll
never reach them.”
perchance by accident,” I say.
notice, also, that the words you use describe
states of being such as passionate and honest.
They don’t describe specific physical
attributes, like what your romantic partner
shall look like.”
he could express even half of the attributes
listed here, he could look like a gorilla and I
But I find Stoney to also be a handsome
I take that as more frosting on the
did you write your list of reasons why you want
to be in an intimate relationship?”
only started on that.”
your desire, your passion and your excitement
are your access to the power of The Divine —
the more passion, the faster the manifestation
of your desire.”
So tell me a couple of your reasons.”
have a friend, companion, and lover.
I’ll feel loved and cared for.
I’ll have a partner to share things
I’ll have someone to add grounding and
a sense of reality to my fanciful and wild
I’ll get immediate feedback when I’m
not walking my talk.
And I’ll have great sex.
Is that enough?” I ask.
you’re on the right track.
Just keep going. Write those things on a list, and every time something
else occurs to you, add it to the list.
And, remember, don’t try to drag the
reasons out of your mind.
Just let them flow as they come.”
I know that, too.”
adds, “And, oh how easy we also forget, but
that’s the nature of being human.
As long as you can accept your humanness
and move on whenever you catch yourself
forgetting, you’ll do just fine.”